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Christmas Clothes Palava!

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Mbok, I’ll like to know how this “buying of Christmas clothes” thing started. Abeg make person wen sabi, help explain am to me. I don’t understand it! Growing up, it was a MUST that my parents got us, new clothes for Christmas, even if they do not buy you any clothes for the year, you were sure of your Christmas and New Year attire! It was unacceptable to do the Christmas “Yawo” (visits) in any old cloth. We enjoyed it and couldn’t imagine anything else.

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Back To Blog!!!

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Hello family, it’s been too long, I know right, I’ve missed you all too. You know I thought being pregnant and having a toddler was a tough cookie and thought it was a good enough excuse not to follow up on my love for talking to you guys on this blog; well, who knew that tough cookie was in fact bliss, try running around two toddlers (boys)!!!

Everyday, i’ll say maybe tomorrow and then the whole of 2016 passed, 2017 January I started an amazing group on Facebook called: ABUJAMOMS!!! Fun right??? Yeah, I know. It’s one of the most fulfilling things I’ve ever done. We are 16,360 members last time i checked and we just clocked 1 (One) Year yesterday. Honestly, I can’t even lie, concentrating on growing the group didn’t even make fill guilty about not blogging all through 2017. We are sisters on the platform and our watch words are; Sister’s keepers and Game-changers, this is because we look out for each other and we are poised to change the game that sees women as their own enemies.

We have carried out some beautiful projects directed at making women relieved and happy, there has been #Abujamomsfeed1000womenandchildren (At the IDP camp in Durunmi Area 1 Abuja), #Abujamoms1000schoolbags (At Gishiri Village), #Widowswindow (Where my sisters gave #50,000 each to 11 widows to support their business). We have partied and made great friendships, and ooooohhhhh we’ve been in the News! AIT, NTA Pilot newspaper, Montage online tv and we are still going strong. Not to worry, some of our events would be featured here in no distance time. So you see? I’ve been having a great time.

This time though, I AM BACK FOR REAL……..I’ve got the hang of managing lil’kids, I’ve decided to get very serious with this passion and yes, I know a lot of you missed my straight from the heart talking! Lol I’m not the University trained writer, I write like it comes to my head and I know you love me like that.

Cheers to a wonderful 2018!!! I still am Happiness Ani reporting for Abujamoms Blog where we are always giving you,….News you can use!

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Maternity Leave….Or Sabbatical?

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Hello friends and fam, trust you all are great. About the last four months…….hmmmmm, long gist. Ok, i started the blog (abuja moms) in april last year when i was about four weeks pregnant, i was super excited and felt Haba, i can do all i was doing at the time, carry the pregnancy and still blog everyday; apparently i didn’t get the memo that being pregnant while having a toddler is a different ball game!!!

Remember, all those times i was AWOL? Well, i didn’t want to talk about my pregnancy at that time so when i felt low or stressed, i just stayed off the blog. I had a smooth one ooh, but in between taking care of my 2yr old and keeping up with another boss growing inside my tummy, I just doff my hat to all Moms. Long story short: I had my baby and even though i’m still doing omugwo, I’m back to what i love doing……Giving you news,you can use.

 

 

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Cunnilingus…”Eating Pussy”

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loviesMy DH loves to exercise and play ball, a couple of weeks back his friends and team mates decided to treat their wives to a fun night; boy that night was really fun!!! We ate, drank, danced, laughed and above all got schooled. They had talks about bonding with spouse, prostrate cancer and of course; giving and getting oral sex, with focus on “Cunnilingus” which as most naija guys would say ‘heading’ or ‘eating pussy’!!! My post today would focus on Moms enjoying this act and keeping the private part clean to encourage bros do the do!!!

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Run-away House help!!!

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Hello Moms, this thing about domestic staff(house helps) is getting most women stressed out. You tutor the person to the workings of your household and just when they’re beginning to get it right…. they take off. I’ve seen women pay very good salary, buy wonderful clothes, treat them right, I’ve even seen some being registered into part-time university and still opt to leave.

Spoke to some Abuja Moms who insist the agents who bring this girls are responsible for their frequent movement because they(agents) need them to move so as to keep getting agency fees from us. I’m sure if we decide to give out names and descriptions of our helps just this year alone; we will find that over 70% of us reading this, have shared same helps. Lol

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Causes Of Low Libido In Women!

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sex driveHello everyone: I must apologize for this longggg silence. We’re back again, i hope everyone and every home is doing great. So; we are going to talk about this thing about low libido or sex drive in women. As it is; lots of wives are going through this and really can’t or won’t talk about it. There are lots and lots of factors that can cause this and if it is not handled properly; it could affect relationships or maybe wreck marriages. Some of the causes of low sex drive are:

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Wicked Husband!!!

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Hello everyone; I thought so hard of what the title of this piece should be and just decided to call this husband a wicked and sick man. So, I got this mail from an Abuja mom; asking me to post her story and hoping she will get some advice and other women can learn a thing or two from her experience. Hear her:

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Married Sex Part 2.

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happy womanHello guys, this my title shaaaaa, Lol. Okay, in our last post we talked about how to improve our sex lives as married women, this post is directed at husbands. I know some men would say; “husbands? There’s nothing to improve ooh, always ready and ……” Well ‘una try’, but still there are things you could do to help ‘ginger’ the sex life between you and your WIFE!!! 

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Married Sex!!!

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coupleHello Moms; So there’s this notion that once you are married: it is good bye to good sex. Well, that isn’t entirely true (true for those who decide to tow that path). Being married does not change the fact that you were sexually attracted to your spouse before you tied the knot. Challenges of life and growth in family size sometimes tend to slow the vibe. Here are some tips to help revamp the sex in your marriage.

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